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Resources for Parents

I hope you find the below-listed resources helpful. Please know that the following is not meant to be a comprehensive list, nor is it an endorsement of the content of the sites.

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Gabb: Safe Cell Phone for Kids
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Recommended Books

“1-2-3 Magic” by Thomas Phelan
“1-2-3 Magic” by Thomas Phelan offers a straightforward and effective discipline approach for children aged 2 to 12. This practical guide empowers parents to manage challenging behaviors using counting and timeout techniques. With a focus on consistency and respect, this book provides valuable tools for creating a harmonious parent-child relationship.
“Brain-based Parenting: The Neuroscience of Caregiving for Healthy Attachment” by Daniel A. Hughes and Jonathan Baylin 
“Brain-based Parenting” by Daniel A. Hughes and Jonathan Baylin explores the profound impact of neuroscience on caregiving and healthy attachment. This insightful book combines cutting-edge research with practical guidance, offering parents valuable strategies to foster secure connections with their children. Discover how understanding the brain can transform your parenting approach and promote your child’s emotional well-being.
“The Whole-Brain Child” by Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson
“The Whole-Brain Child” by Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson reveals the powerful connection between brain development and children’s emotional well-being. With practical strategies and engaging storytelling, this book equips parents with valuable tools to nurture their child’s brain and promote emotional intelligence. Gain insights into the workings of the brain and discover effective techniques to navigate challenging moments, fostering a strong parent-child bond.
“How to Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk” by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish 
“How to Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk” by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish is a must-read guide for effective communication with children. This renowned book provides practical techniques and tools for parents to enhance their communication skills, fostering mutual understanding and cooperation. Learn how to engage in respectful conversations, solve conflicts, and build stronger connections with your child.
“Parenting from the Inside Out” by Daniel J. Siegel and Mary Hartzell
“Parenting from the Inside Out” by Daniel J. Siegel and Mary Hartzell offers a transformative perspective on parenting. This book explores the intersection of neuroscience, personal growth, and parenting, providing practical guidance for developing self-awareness and building a strong parent-child relationship. Discover how understanding your own experiences can positively influence your parenting approach, leading to deeper connections and healthier emotional development for your child.
“Attachment-Focused Parenting” by Daniel A. Hughes 
“Attachment-Focused Parenting” by Daniel A. Hughes is a valuable resource that explores the importance of secure attachment in parenting. This insightful book offers practical guidance on how to cultivate strong and healthy parent-child relationships. Through understanding the impact of attachment, parents can enhance their communication, responsiveness, and emotional connection with their children. With evidence-based strategies and real-life examples, “Attachment-Focused Parenting” equips parents with the tools they need to promote their child’s emotional well-being and development.
“The Power of Showing Up” by Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson 
“The Power of Showing Up” by Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson explores the profound impact of parental presence and attunement on a child’s development. This enlightening book emphasizes the significance of being emotionally available and responsive to children’s needs. Through real-life stories and practical advice, Siegel and Bryson provide guidance on how parents can create secure and nurturing relationships with their children. “The Power of Showing Up” offers valuable insights and strategies to help parents foster resilience, self-regulation, and healthy attachments in their children.
“Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child” by John Gottman 
“Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child” by John Gottman is a highly regarded guide that focuses on developing emotional intelligence in children. Dr. Gottman, a renowned relationship expert, provides practical tools and strategies for parents to foster their child’s emotional awareness, empathy, and communication skills. Through engaging examples and research-based insights, this book empowers parents to navigate challenging emotions, build strong connections, and promote positive social interactions with their children. “Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child” is an invaluable resource for parents seeking to nurture their child’s emotional well-being and long-term success.

Online Parenting Articles, Resources, and Blogs

KidsHealth
Child Development Institute
American Academy of Pediatrics
Psychology Today: Parenting
Verywell Family
Child Mind Institute
Parenting.com
Blog: Positive Parenting
Sesame Street Workshop

Recommended YouTube Channels and Podcasts

YouTube: 1-2-3 Magic by Thomas Phelan
Podcast: Play Therapy Parenting by Dr. Brenda Hicks
Podcast: Playful Parenting Podcast by Andrew Barnett
Podcast: The Coping Toolbox: a Child Psych Podcast by Drs. Jennifer Vriend, Laila Din Osmun, and Mary Simmering McDonald

Parenting Programs and Online Parenting Communities

Attachment Nerd

https://attachmentnerd.com

“Attachment Nerd” is a valuable online resource dedicated to exploring attachment theory. Discover the latest research, practical strategies, and personal stories on attachment-based parenting, relationships, and psychology. Enhance your understanding of attachment and its impact on child development and adult relationships with this insightful website. Whether you’re a parent, educator, or professional, “Attachment Nerd” provides valuable insights and tools to promote healthy attachments in your life.

Tuning into Kids
Parents
The Tuning into Kids parenting program helps parents enhance their emotional connection with their children. Developed by psychologists, this evidence-based program provides practical strategies to understand and respond to children’s emotions effectively. By fostering empathy and communication skills, parents can nurture their child’s emotional well-being. 
Circle of Security International 
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Circle of Security International offers valuable resources and programs for caregivers seeking to strengthen their relationship with their child. Their evidence-based approach helps parents and professionals understand the importance of secure attachment and provides practical tools to enhance parent-child interactions. Through workshops, training, and resources, Circle of Security International empowers caregivers to create secure and nurturing relationships that support their child’s emotional well-being.
Attachment Parenting International (API): 

https://www.attachmentparenting.org

API is a non-profit organization that promotes attachment-focused parenting practices. Their website offers articles, forums, and local support groups where parents can learn about and discuss attachment-based parenting. 

Local Services and Support

Maui Family Support Services

https://mfss.org

Maui Family Support Services offers comprehensive programs and resources to strengthen families in Maui, Hawaii. They provide parenting education, counseling, home visiting, and early childhood education programs, promoting child development and empowering families.

Maui Youth and Family Services

https://www.myfs.org

Maui Youth and Family Services offers counseling, crisis intervention, and prevention programs to support the well-being of youth and families in Maui, Hawaii. Their services address emotional, behavioral, and mental health concerns while promoting resilience and providing essential life skills.

State of Hawaii Child and Adolescent Mental Health Division (CAMHD)
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The State of Hawaii’s Child and Adolescent Mental Health Division (CAMHD) provides comprehensive programs and resources to support the mental health of children and adolescents. Their services include assessment, therapy, and crisis intervention, promoting the well-being of young individuals and their families.

Keiki O Ka Aina
https://www.koka.org
Keiki O Ka Aina offers comprehensive programs for children and families, including early childhood education, parenting support, and family strengthening services. They promote child development, enhance parenting skills, and empower families for a thriving community.
Grief Support for Children and Teens: Na Keiki O Emalia
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Na Keiki o Emalia provides compassionate support for grieving children and families through counseling, therapeutic activities, and educational resources. They help children navigate the challenges of grief and promote healing and resilience.
Parenting Class: Kamalama via Maui Family Support Services
Na Hui Parenting
“Kamalama” is a parenting class by Maui Family Support Services, offering practical guidance and resources to enhance parent-child relationships and promote child development. Empower yourself with valuable skills and knowledge through this program.

Professional Associations

Association for Play Therapy
Sandplay Therapists of America
American Counseling Association
American Psychological Association
National Association of Social Workers
American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy